I had an appointment with an optometrist the other day. I was trying a long established bloke in our shopping centre rather than going to the people that seem to be taking over the place with lots of slick spectacle centres.

I wandered in a week or so before and made an appointment for the following week.

The day before the appointment was scheduled I received an SMS reminder about it. I always reckon they are salutary instructions not to be late!

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I turned up a few minutes before the appointed time and the receptionist told me the person I needed to see was running late. She suggested that I might like to go for a walk around the shopping centre, which I had no need or intention to do.

From a simultaneous discussion I realised I was second in the queue to be seen at my appointment time. In other words, they were running quite a bit late. It would need to be a fairly long walk around the shopping centre!

It was then that I decided to cancel my appointment and go look to find somebody who would at least try to make a great first impression and be on time. Alternatively they could’ve sent me a message telling me they were running late.

My question is simple. Why remind me of appointments that really can’t be kept?